Positive mind explores possibilities in everything

OdishaPlus Bureau

A weekly column on human psychology, youth & leadership with Dr. Debilal Mishra

A positive life is all what we need! But it’s not possible without positive vibes. How to get our vibes right? Today we’ll discuss such questions in the column Finding Hope with DLM.

How can positive vibes be created?
Positive vibes can be created by positive thoughts. And for that we need to make the mind positive. A positive mind is the source of the positive energy. When the mind is positive, there’s a positive behavioral transformation leading to a positive life. Without a positive mind a positive life is simply inconceivable.

How can we make the mind positive?
Self-realization is really crucial in this process. A positive mind is certainly the result of learning, realization and positive relationships. A positive mind realizes its unique capability; and it never compares, competes or expects. It consists in the attitude to see and explore possibilities in everything.

How can one create a positive personality?
It’s only by loving and believing in oneself that one can create a positive personality. Whatever may be the situation, one must choose effort over excuses, return over regrets, working over weaknesses, learning over losses and goal over grudges. Self-belief and self-love are two vital components. Love for yourself strengthens your self-belief and creates an aura and atmosphere of positive vibes.

Q:How can we protect our positivity in negative situations?
A good question! We must have faith in our positivity and keep away from negative vibes as much as possible. We should stop taking something or someone seriously if they negatively affect us. There should be selective response ‘respond to what matters the most!’ Moreover, we need to develop positive interests as central to our positive habits, hobbies, activities and emotions.

We should focus more on ‘what we have’, ‘what we learn’ and ‘what we can do’, rather than ‘what we don’t have’, ‘what we lose’ and ‘what we can’t do’. A positive mind always finds a reason to be positive, whereas a negative mind always finds a reason to be negative. We must remember that there’s forever a dream, day and delight for someone having a positive mind.